Jan 23, 2022

The “Client from Hell”—Myth or Reality?

It’s fun to complain about the annoying things our clients say & do. It’s necessary for any service provider to have a safe, understanding space to vent and roll their eyes and share screenshots of ridiculous emails. It helps to have a squad you can call on to help you navigate a difficult situation or craft a “you’re fired” email.

But also…

A “client from hell” is, most of the time, just a person running a business.

You’re probably not the only service provider they’re engaged with, and entrepreneurship is amplifying their strengths and weaknesses, just like it amplifies *your* strengths & weaknesses.

A good deal of the time, clients hire service providers because they tried to do the thing themselves, and they failed. And they probably feel some type of way about that.

So all of that is part of the package, whether the client is aware of it or not. And being all sensitive-like, we (HSPs and neurodiverse service providers) can often perceive these behind-the-scenes forces more easily than others.

It’s a weird paradox, right?

We have the capacity to view the “client from hell” through a more nuanced, lens, to view them with compassion and care—which *should* help us take their behavior less personally…

…and yet our sensitivity means we’re ALSO more affected by these clients’ shitty and/or careless behavior.

This feels like the definition of highly sensitive person problems. Will you tell me about the last “client from hell” experience you had, and what you did about it? (Note: no names please. This isn’t about shaming our clients.)

Samantha Pollack

About Sam

Samantha Pollack is  a Positioning Strategist & Copywriter who creates powerful brand personalities and compelling marketing copy for service providers, creatives, BIPOC women, AuDHD folks, activists, queers, weirdos, and other smart people.

She's known for her ability to truly capture my clients' voice and craft messaging that makes THEIR clients feel seen, safe, and excited AF to get to work.

Sam believes the most important asset in your business is your audience’s trust, and is working to build a new marketing paradigm rooted in honesty, kindness, and slowing the f*ck down—while making (and paying) sustainable wages. 

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